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About Tracy Lee

Years ago, I watched the film 'The Sessions' and felt something deep stir in my being. As Helen Hunt portrayed a surrogate partner helping a disabled man experience touch and intimacy for the first time, I knew: this is something I’m meant to do.

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That Moment Stayed With Me

From that point on I steered my training towards this goal. Along this path I had a client whose healing journey through touch trauma was slow and arduous. When we invited his therapist into the process and created a triadic container, the progress was astounding. What had been cautious steps forward suddenly became great leaps. And I saw firsthand the power of this sacred collaboration. Reinforcing my YES! this work is for me.​

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Today, I remain committed to this work because it changes lives. Deeply, quicker than talk therapy alone, and for the long term. Clients learn embodied confidence, intimacy skills, and ways of being that ripple into every area of life. They feel more alive. More themselves. More capable of love and connection.

Surrogate Partner Experience

​Tools & Skills

I bring a full spectrum of tools to our work together: Mindfulness-based meditation therapy, tantra education, boundary and consent mastery, Certified Cuddlist training, and even Reiki. I meet each person with warmth, safety, and attunement. Guiding you gently through vulnerability into empowerment.​​

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I love working with folks of any gender/persuasion who’ve felt left behind in love or sex. Whether due to inexperience, illness, shame, or disconnection. People frustrated and feeling rejected from repeated breakups and unfulfilling relationships.

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I have many years of experience with men struggling with performance issues like PE or ED. I help them rebuild trust in their bodies, understand their partner’s needs, and rewire old patterns into new possibilities.​

Tracy Lee Surrogate Partner

Come Home To Yourself

These clients often come in feeling isolated, unsure, or hungry for touch and understanding. Together, we build confidence, healthy relational patterns, and a renewed sense of manhood—not based on performance, but presence. They learn that erections aren’t required for intimacy. They learn how to communicate, how to receive, how to soften, and how to lead.

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This work isn’t about fixing you. We alone place the thought than I’m broken upon ourselves because we are comparing the ways we work differently from others verses understanding and embracing, “I am me! This is how I work. (I) love me this way”. It’s about coming home to yourself.

If you’re feeling nervous, know that your feelings are welcome. We’ll move at your pace. This work is custom-built for you. Know that you are not alone. You have a skilled and loving team ready to walk beside you.
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Trainings and Education

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Collaborating w/ Surrogate Partners in the Triadic Model

How to Help Generalize Surrogate Partner Therapy

Fundamentals of Embodied Intimacy 

Surrogate Partner Professional Training

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Sacred Sexuality through a Tantric Lens 

School of Consent with Betty Martin  

Like a Pro with Betty Martin

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Love and Ecstasy Training through SkydancingTantra.org

          Cycle 1: The Body Ecstatic and Sexual Healing

          Cycle 2: Celebrating Love and Orgasm

          Cycle 3: The Joy of the Spirit: Meditation - Ecstasy

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Holistic Pelvic Care™ 

Certified Trained Cuddlist

Hakomi Mindfulness Therapy

 

Reiki Master

          Advanced Kundalini Reiki Master

          Gold Reiki Master

          Usui Reiki master

          Chakra Balancing

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Self-Discovery School of Intuitive Healing with Becky Moore 

End of Life Washington/Death with Dignity advocate training and volunteering

Surrogate Partner Relationship

Let's Talk

If you’re curious, nervous, or wondering if this work could help you…

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Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Consultation

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